SF: Dance more, talk less??
first a disclaimer:
I'm the most guilty of this crime...I just want to disclaim this from the beginning.
The problem:
I've heard too many of our out-of-town guests leave the decks confused becuase "no-one was dancing". It is obvious to us that we are having a blast, but they can't tell.
Hypothesis:
Here's the situation as i can see it: We are all such good friends and having so much fun that we can't shut up...We're all sharing ideas and talking jibber jabber or whatever, and the dancefloor suffers for it. We go out on the dancefloor and chat, or just hang by the bar...or the worst, smoke cigarettes out front all night
Solution:?
..So I'm going to throw this out there:::
I love you all, sincerely, but I"m going to make a concious effort to dance more, and talk less....If the music is good, and the mood is right, danceytime. Especially at parties like Kontrol or Platform (or 222, or...the list goes on), where the artists are giving it their all, have been working for years for just this one set.
That's what i live for. If you see me out, and i seem like i'm not in the mood to chat, don't take it personally....I promise i'm not being mean....but I probaly don't want to talk about much of anything. If the shades are on, the hoody is drawn...I'm probaly not going to be very social....a hug is good though : ) There's def a time for me to be social, and i love that about our scene and about SF, but if someone seems like they are deep inside the music, lets let that focus go on, and spread to everyone else, and lets help the city geta moving.
Thanks to everyone in the past who have told me to shut up and leave them alone...I get it now, and i'm sorry. And thanks to all the dancers who make us djs have fun up there. And thanks to the Endup for making a dancefloor that makes you not want to talk...what a refuge that place can be : )
So...anyone with me? Dancey ya'll?
Thoughts?

hm, thats funny to me. coming from michigan where absolutely nobody is dancing, it seems like the scene in SF is way more dance friendly. Guess it still doesn't compare to europe where people are just there to dance. If I'm knee bendin thats me dancing though!
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Jason,
Are you making fun of the way that I dance? Everyone knows that it's my signature dance move to bob my head and flap my lips to the beat. Don't hate because I'm original... everyone else who's doing my "talk talk" move on the dance floor are just trainspotters!
Funny you mention this. I think the lack of dancing at music events in SF is cross-genre. I was just having a conversation the other day with a guy after the Ministry show last week and we both agreed that music fans in S.F. are usually doing more listening than dancing. The crowd at the Ministry concert was so low-energy I was almost going to sit down! I've had this experience with other bands and I have to say that East Coast fans (of any type of music) are way more rowdy, wild, and into the music than fans here (can't speak for the mid-west since I haven't really been there). I'm not saying that S.F. fans aren't enjoying the music as much, we just enjoy it in a different way. Maybe it's because everybody here is a DJ or is in a band. Maybe it's because the people here are very critical and judgmental of music? I'm not exactly sure. San Franciscans enjoy quality music and we are spoiled with it. Maybe our low-key attitude will never change.
If you don't believe me just browse though my live Grateful Dead collection. The East Coast shows have crowds so fuckin loud you can barely hear the music. Quite the opposite here.
The same goes with dance music here too. Besides nights like Kontrol and when big-name headliners come, our dance floors are close to dead. So i'll support Jason in saying, "Bring out yo dancin' shoes, and get out on the floor!"
:arrow: :idea: :!:
Sean Knight
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You went to a Ministry show AND you referenced The Grateful Dead.
1) you must be as OLD as me.
2) perhaps this is why noone is dancing.
I'm old as fuk, but you'll still see me shaking down (more often than not).
You might even find me shaking to "shake down street" in my bedroom, but I would never admit in a techno forum.
Oh wait. :wink: [/size]
The same goes with dance music here too. Besides nights like Kontrol and when big-name headliners come, our dance floors are close to dead.
Gotta disagree with you Sean, as I believe it's mostly limited to genres where straight men are the majority in the crowd. Dcoy, James Bass & I went over to Gun Club the same night as the last Kontrol and it had tons of chicks there, dancing their asses off to dirty ass disco. Same thing goes for clubs that play house music, progressive or more "scene" or "pickup" oriented clubs. This is no surprise, but guys outnumber women when it comes to techno appreciation, and in a city like SF, pretty much every guy is a DJ.
There are two jokes I know that help summarize the lack of dancing:
Q: How many DJs does it take to screw in a lightbulb?
A: 2. One to screw it in and one to say he could do it better.
And to paraphrase Dane Cook, Women often say, "I just want to go out dancing". Guys just don't say that.
So the fact remains that techno is a dude heavy genre in regards to it's appreciation, and chicks like dancing more than guys.
As DJs, promoters and tastemakers, I think the burden is actually on us, to get the music out there NOT just to fellow techno geeks (myself included) but people outside of the techno scene and get them involved.
And like Jason said, Dance. Some DJs have too much ego to dance to other DJs or are being Mr. Bitter b/c they aren't the one rocking the crowd (Guilty!). Let's get over the ego, and self consciousness and enjoy the music. I'll make a conscious effort to shut up also... :)
On a side note, I think SF is one of the most dance friendly cities in the country. I used to DJ back in the DC/Baltimore area and used to go up to NY and party up and down the East Coast, and was blown away when I first visited SF. Granted, I'm an old man now and haven't partied in as many other cities in the country (outside of DEMF & WMC) as I used to, so things may have changed, but I don't need to. SF treats me just fine... :)
So in summary:
1. Get the music out there!
2. Get more chicks involved.
3. Dance!
Rave on.
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i havent noticed people *not* dancing here in sf. only at parties i dont usually go to (said: hipster trash warehouse parties -- cellphones, great hair and coke nosejobs).
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I still feel like women stay away when they see/hear the words TECHNO. I think people still associate techno with 145 BPM hard tracky shit....
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I agree with the notion that people actually dance more here than other places. People rarely danced in Boston, and even at Bunker in NYC I still found plenty of arms crossed with no moving feet.
even if we all dance here more than new york and new england, i still agree though that we could all dance a little more!
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fuck. i can dance at home.
but how often do you get to yell small talk over a 110db soundsystem.
i'll take the practice when i can get it. :wink:
speaking of talk, first one to 50 posts bitches! :P
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Sheesh. Doesn't this guy EVER shut up? ;)
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hi. i'm katherine, and i am a chick obviously. i try to go to the different parties in sf. i am often one of the first people on the dance floor, but not because i am a chick. rather because i want to show my support. (i've djed to an empty floor so i know how that is.)
i definitely think more people should get on the floor and sooner. but dancing AND chatting is what builds a techno community.
anyways, saying things like "2. Get more chicks involved." is definitely not the way to get more chicks involved. as a girl i usually feel like the techno scene here is a boys-club and it's off-putting.
furthermore, i think that at parties in sf it tends to be about half girls and half boys, no?
Yes, and those "50 posts" have earned you the title of "Techno Snob" :wink:
Sean Knight
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I'm old as fuk, but you'll still see me shaking down (more often than not).
You might even find me shaking to "shake down street" in my bedroom, but I would never admit in a techno forum.
Oh wait. :wink: [/size]
ha, that strikes a chord in my heart. i'm someone who went to a ministry concert and was old enough to go to a grateful dead one was well (but didn't)
a toast to wrinkles! :D
The problem:
I've heard too many of our out-of-town guests leave the decks confused becuase "no-one was dancing". It is obvious to us that we are having a blast, but they can't tell.
Thoughts?
i dance more than most people--that's why I go to parties. i think i don't talk enough. a dancefloor that's too crowded is no fun.
what i don't like is when people go into the middle of the dance floor and just stand there in clumps talking when it's too loud to hear the other people talking.
or they go up to look at the dj but stand in the middle of the dance floor and then there's no room to move.
i like dancing circles. i don't like it when people elbow me (a lot of girls do it but not really girls who listen to techno) or when they grope me or kick me.
weirdly enough techno is a guy thing in SF, but in europe it's what girls & gay guys listen to too, especially when it's mainstream. i don't know why it's like that. usually it's at drum and bass or breakcore parties where people say that there aren't enough women.
i like it when people connect and dance together on the floor who don't know each other.
i like to dance standing next to the speakers instead of next to the dj, unless the dj's doing handstands or moving around.
a toast to wrinkles! :D
I'm not even that old, I just had cool parents 8)
Sean Knight
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everyone just needs to stop being so fucking interesting, then I wouldnt talk to you as much....... :wink:
and I think there is a good balance of girls/boys....
yet another reason to be distracted from dancing, however, I make sure to shake a leg here and there...
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Not rock music, if you get what I am saying. the stewart walker show was drowned out with chatter, I was dancing in front of the speaker and I could still hear the mindless chatter. go talk somewhere else crack heads, come on please, it was so bad that told all the people to shut the hell up. I have confronted people that talk right by me before, you know I actually paid for this show, not to hear you talk about your mo focking hair
If it was so awful maybe you should go to this...
Dance alone with your ipod on and have none of that mindless chatter to worry about.... ;)
http://www.nytimes.com/2008/04/20/nyregion/20rave.html?_r=1&ei=5087&em=&...
A silent rave organized by a British exchange student at Packer Collegiate Institute began at 6:17 p.m. on Friday in Manhattan.
Once, under a hot sun in 2005, a soft drink maker tried to stand upright a frozen Popsicle the size of an ICBM. It melted into ooze.
But few things were more curious than what was staged on Friday evening, at the south end of Union Square near East 14th Street. More than a thousand people, most of them young, gathered for a dance party without audible music, known as a silent rave.
It was striking for what could not be heard.
On the west side of the square, city workers ripped up the street with jackhammers. On the east side, a stalled caravan of drivers, no doubt frustrated by streets’ closing for the visit of Pope Benedict XVI, leaned on car horns.
But in the middle, there might as well have been a cone of silence. A mass of people — a head-bobbing, arms-above-the-head, conga-line-forming, full-tilt boogie-woogie — emitted what seemed like no sound but rather music visible.
Everyone danced in place, listening to an iPod and prancing to his or her own playlist. For long minutes, in the distance, only the square’s ever-present bongo players could be heard, while close up only shoes, or bare feet, could be heard padding on concrete. Video cameras and cellphones were everywhere.
A man explained to his friend: “It’s a silent rave. Everyone’s dancing to whatever’s on their iPod.”
“And filming themselves,” replied his friend.
“Yeah, it’ll be on YouTube tonight,” the first man said, “if not, like, now already.” (Indeed, several videos were posted on YouTube within hours.)
A man in camouflage fatigues walking a very small dog struck a curious pose. A group of teenagers, spying the upraised hands, picked up their pace out of the square when one teen declared, “I know that’s a fight.”
Across the street, shoppers on the second and third floors of Filene’s Basement pressed their hands against windows.
The mastermind behind the silent rave was one Jonnie Wesson, 18, a British exchange student spending a year at the Packer Collegiate Institute in Brooklyn Heights.
Silent raves are popular in Europe, especially London, where he grew up, Mr. Wesson said. “The basic premise is that a hundred or a thousand or a few thousand people all turn up in a public place, turn on their own headphones and dance.”
He added: “It’s always fantastic and weird to see thousands of people dancing silently. It’s always in a public space, but it’s not meant to cause disruption, but only because it’s the last place you’d expect that sort of thing.”
And what attracts Mr. Wesson to such public displays? “Anyone who is self-conscious like I am,” he said, “can find themselves completely at ease. I can never imagine dancing in the street, but when you’re with a thousand like-minded other people — commuters, grandmas, teachers, students, any kind of person you can imagine, all listening to their own music, but all together at the same time.”
One of the largest such silent raves occurred in London in 2006 at Paddington Station, when 3,500 people turned up at the height of rush hour, 7:18 p.m.
The provenance of the silent rave has more to do with the recent phenomenon of flash mobs, which are instant public gatherings performing something absurd, like a pillow fight.
They have little to do with raves, which are often drug-fueled, all-night parties in dance clubs. Indeed, one censorious young man circled the dancing crowd and yelled, “What! This is a rave? How could there be a rave and no booty? How could there be a rave and no sex? How could there be a rave and no E?” referring to Ecstasy.
As is the case with much of his generation, Mr. Wesson organized the silent rave through a social networking Web site, in this case Facebook. By late afternoon on Friday, nearly 7,000 people had responded.
It began at 6:17 p.m. “It’s a random time that fits in with the ethos of the flash mob,” said Mr. Wesson, standing below Union Square’s giant statue of George Washington.
At the appointed hour, people rushed toward Mr. Wesson, shouting the time from the digital watch of a passer-by, counting down with him as if it were New Year’s Eve.
Mr. Wesson’s hoped-for musical diversity didn’t materialize. He listened to “Tarantula” by Pendulum.
Others listened to 50 Cent, Notorious B.I.G., Paul van Dyk, DJ Tiësto, Armin Van Buuren. Sinatra could not be heard from anyone’s white iPod earphones.
By 11 p.m., the rave had dwindled to several hundred still-whirling people. Olivier Rousseau, 50, an engineer from Nice, France, stopped and tried to apprehend the silent disarray before him.
“This idea of individualism is so very strange,” he said, “so American.”
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It is hard to squeeze a subwoofer into an earbud. If SF clubs had enough sound, it wouldn't matter that people want to chat or use their cell phones on the dancefloor. The recombinant media lab has proved this to be true in the past.
There used to be a guy who would hand out parking tickets at parties to people just standing on the dancefloor. I thought that was amusing.
Someone else suggested getting my punk friends together and starting a mosh pit, maybe the next time richard devine comes we will bring that together. until then, yeah your handbag is cute and that tshirt is sooo cool.
Yeah, I've actually been quite impressed by the equality of the gender distribution at SF parties. Though at last night's 222 show, there was definitely a sort of "high school" style separation of boys and girls on different sides of the dance floor.
Dance!
Together!
keep right on digging
alright, so at dj funk at vessel there was a totally booming system, and I couldn't hear anyone talking including the people I was with, it was impossible to not dance. That is pretty much what parties need, loud music. Promoters hear that, LOUD music, there is no point in being able to talk or think, just feel the music.
did it really end at 12:00?
No, we decided that the lounge, which is upstairs, we think ended at 12. Funk played for 12.30 to 2.
Alcohol prices
6 dollar dos eches
8 dollar well drinks, (weak)
12 signature cocktales
Great sound, serious bass, they spent 300,000 on lights and sound and it shows.
I might actually crack and go to a house night there, even though the crowd will be cheezy.
everyone needs a little bass in their face.... :shock: :lol:
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I kinda figured as much, which is why i didn't end up going...
I went to Vessel when Listed had the Kooky Scientist. They musta had the sound turned way down, because I definitely didn't have the same experience as you. Not to mention that I totally missed Kooky Scientist since they put him on at like 11:00 - 12:30 (WTF!?)
yeah, i got cranky about the volume of the chatter on the dance floor at stewart walker, too. hell, i paid to hear him, not everyone blah blah blahing. ok, granted, it's a small space, and there's not a lot of space to go talk. but still, it sucked.
I like chattering as much as the next person, but I try to do it outside or just off the dancefloor. Maybe a quick saying hello to a friend on the dance floor, but why have an extended conversation there when you have to yell?
Yeah, I get annoyed by people just standing in the middle of the dance floor, too. It really stops the flow of energy somehow. It's like how it's easier to move through a crowd and not bump into people when you're kind of dancingwalking and not just walking.
we always have had lots of people dancing every wednesday night. one of the reasons we have been able to get great talent to return to our intimate little spot. i think the change in drug culture over the years from more social drugs to drugs that are a bit more about "me" then "us" has made its mark for sure.
I am impressed. Not like i doubted him at all but it pleased me to see. Jason was front and center for Mo's entire set at Anu on Friday. I replied with a fuck yeah and a fist pump. He totally set the tone for such an energetic set. I just wish he could have played longer. Drumcell deserves more than an hour. :lol:
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> I am impressed. Not like i doubted him at all but it pleased me to see. Jason was front and center for Mo's entire set at Anu on Friday. I replied with a fuck yeah and a fist pump. He totally set the tone for such an energetic set. I just wish he could have played longer. Drumcell deserves more than an hour.
That was the time he requested. I've made it policy from party 1 that I build from the time the DJ wants. I'm booking nothing but DJs I know can kill it, and I want them to have every chance to do so. I start with the headliner, and fill the remaining time from there. So far no one's asked for more than 2 hours. Most seem happy with an hour and 15 to an hour and half.
Note/personal request to other promoters: NO ONE asks for 45 minute sets. PLEASE stop doing those. 1 hour is the minimum for any DJ who isn't some friend of yours asking for deck time. I have a few of those who'll get plugged in if the other acts request time that doesn't add up to a clean 4 hours (or however long I have the venue), but please stop making it a regular habit. KBAITHX